FAQs

Frequently Asked Questions

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Can I book a yoni mapping?

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Absolutely, but at Anahata Tantra Temple yoni mapping occurs only as part of a massage. For energy reasons we do not perform the mpping session alone. To be able to receive yoni mapping  book a tantric massage. Please note that at this time Daria does not perform yoni mapping.

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Is the activation of sexual energy connected to physical / erotic pleasure or orgasm?

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Sexual energy in tantra is vital energy, power to act and achieve goals and dreams. Its name strongly associates with physical pleasure but it is important to understand what it really means and what it is used for during the massage. Sexual energy is feminine energy, but not every feminine energy is sexual energy. Feminine energy can take various forms, e.g. sexual, Kundalini, Kali. Activation of feminine energy, its circulation in the body and breathwork that takes place during the massage increase the feeling of the body, which in everyday life with the partner it may lead to  increased physical pleasure, erotic, easier way to orgasms with our partners in private life. It is worth mentioning that despite the fact that orgasm is not the goal of a massage, orgasms and energy orgasms, such as the abdomen, throat, legs, chest, etc. may happen during the session.

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Is the Tantric massage you offer erotic massage? Does it come to sexual pleasure in this massage?

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No. Tantric massage IS NOT erotic massage. If you are looking for a massage, during which you want to be sexually satisfied or you are looking for erotic massage, we don't have such services for you. Tantric massage uses sexual energy for the purpose of personal development. The purpose of tantric massage IS NOT to achieve genital orgasm, however orgasm CAN take place, especially during focus on belly, or while there is touch externally near or on the clitoris.

The touch in a tantric massage is diverse and intense, which is why many people experience the session as a profound and deep experience, often leaving them feeling tired afterward. The movements of the hands and forearms vary between quick and slow, enveloping the body. The massage also includes vibrational movements – most commonly vibrations applied with the hand around the abdomen between solar plexus and 2 chakra, the center of the chest, and the neck.

Each individual may perceive these movements differently: for some, they may feel perfectly attuned, for others, very intense, and for yet others, delicate. It’s important to note that tantric massage differs from other techniques: it is not Reiki, biomassage, or pranic healing. The movements are usually intense but are not meant to cause pain, as can sometimes happen in Thai massage.

For men, intimate touch involves pressure and stretching, without rapid movements. For women, yoni mapping includes external and internal pressure, which can range from gentle to firm but also avoids rapid movements. If intimate mapping is part of the massage, this portion typically lasts around several minutes.

Deciding to include this part of the massage should be fully conscious – it’s best to opt for it if you are 100% certain you want to experience it. Due to the intensity and the potential for sensations ranging from discomfort to physical pleasure, setting boundaries is essential both before and during the session. Yoni/lingam mapping is a deeply personal experience, and every individual should feel at ease and in control when deciding how it unfolds.

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Are the massagists naked during tantric massage?

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No. Our masseuses and masseur perform the tantric massage in a pareo/sarong in order to better concentrate in the offered service and not to redirect the client attention toward erotic massage.

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How can I feel after a healing session?

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Each healing session is a very individual process. It's a work with personal intention.

Up to several days after a healing session may happen different emotions, such as: anger, sadness as well as relief, joy and peace. It's also possible to experience different reactions of the body such as: little physical pain near intimate area, solar plexus or rib cage. It may appear also changes in humor and energetic changes, for example a person that is often in anger can be more gentle and delicate. It all depends mainly from the intention on what you want to work. Observe yourself and the reaction of other people on your person.

Often after a session you can feel immediately much better, in bliss - as if a big load was dropped from the body. Because that's what really happens 🙂

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How will I feel after a Tantric Massage Session

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The purpose of tantric massage is to load up the body with vital energy, through which follows a very fast cleansing/healing and which creates the space for pleasure and bliss to come. Most people after a tantric massage session feel more relaxed, light, as if something heavy fell down of them. You can feel that the fatigue and tiredness that always accompanied you, disappears, and in its place comes in positive energy for action. You can feel more love and satisfaction from life 🙂

Usually people start to look different to others. After a session, family, friends and acquaintances may state that something changed in you, for example that you emanate peace, goodnes, sensitivity, or that you are more self confident and have more power.
People that come to us for tantric massage usually say that more often people want to hug them, and generally become more lovable than usual.

 

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Will I be naked?

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Usually this massage is received without clothes, however it's not obligatory. If you feel discomfort being without clothes, you can underwear/lingerie on and feel comfortable without doing anything that could violates your boundaries. All your boundaries will be respected.

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Do the tantric massage sessions you offer include intimate areas massage?

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During a standard "Senses Wide Open" tantric massage that we perform, we do not focus on the intimate area. Typically, this massage does not involve focus on the yoni area. However, if a person wishes to include it and clearly communicates this desire before the session begins, during the boundary-setting discussion, it is possible to include this area in the massage. This means that intimate areas may be touched to activate sexual energy and guide it to the heart and higher chakras, but a separate intimate area massage is not performed—unless otherwise agreed upon before the session. For women, internal yoni massage is not part of this session; it is offered during separate release and cleansing sessions. Only in the case of conscious and verbal communication expressing a desire to experience yoni massage/mapping will the massage of intimate areas be part of the "Senses Wide Open" massage.

The massage of intimate areas is a part of the Kama Marma Tantric Massage and the Fire Snake Tantric Massage, where the focus is on the yoni and lingam. Of course, if you do not want the therapist to touch your intimate areas, that is perfectly acceptable—your comfort, safety, and boundaries are our top priority. Before the massage, during the initial discussion, we will ask about your boundaries. These boundaries can be narrowed at any time during the massage (but not expanded). For instance, you can choose to opt out of intimate area massage during the session, but if that boundary was set beforehand, it will be respected throughout the massage.

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Will I have an orgasm during the massage?

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A genital orgasm is not the goal of tantric massage. However, it may happen, especially when focusing on the abdomen or intimate areas. You should not force an orgasm, nor should you suppress sexual energy if a climax is approaching. During the massage, we let go of control because we feel safe, and every natural experience is entirely appropriate. If a boundary arises due to intense pleasure, it is important to clearly and verbally communicate your feelings and needs so that the massage can proceed in alignment with your comfort and limits.

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Will I have ejaculation during tantric massage?

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Ejaculation is not the aim of tantric massage. We don't seek genital orgasm, however it may happen while focusing on intimate areas. According to the tantric teachings ejaculation leads to a dispersion of vital energy, thus in tantric massage we try to cumulate sexual energy and circulate it inside our body. In this way the body cleanses itself and the man can experience bliss in the whole body and sometimes even energetic orgasm.

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What is the duration of a tantric massage?

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The first massage session can be 3 to 4 hours long as it includes an introduction talk, meditation, integration, time for preparation and after-massage-talk. Tantric massage is from 1 to 2 hours long. You can choose the length of your session when filling out the booking form taking into consideration that the whole meeting will be 1,5h or 2h longer than the massage time. Intimate areas focus (if this option was chosen) can take longer than 10 minutes.

Before the massage begins, a meditation known as the "Three Temples Connection" takes place. In this practice, the client and the masseur sit close to each other, creating a deep connection on the levels of consciousness, heart, and body.

During the meditation, as per instructions, the foreheads of the participants touch for several seconds, symbolizing the connection at the level of the third eye. Then, the masseur's right hand rests on the client's heart chakra, and the left hand on the second chakra, located below the navel and above the intimate areas. The hands remain still, without any sexual undertones.

A short segment of this meditation can be seen in the video from 00:20 to 00:35 seconds: YouTube video link.

Possible Sensations and Alternatives

At the beginning of the practice, some discomfort may be felt due to the initial physical closeness. However, this meditation is crucial as it helps release tension before the actual massage.

If you feel uncomfortable with the touch involved in this meditation, it is important to communicate this beforehand. The meditation can be performed at a greater distance and without physical contact. In every situation, the client's boundaries are fully respected.

 

 

 

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How can I prepare for a Tantra massage?

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  • We suggest not to drink alcohol few days before the massage
  • We suggest not to smoke at least several hours before the massage
  • If possible, try to reduce meat and junk food consumption before the massage
  • Be happy and in a good mood 🙂

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Where do the tantric massage sessions take place?

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Massages take place at the Anahata Tantra Temple in Warsaw.

The temple is a separate, specially arranged space within an apartment, used exclusively for tantric massages and spiritual practices such as meditation and yoga. When you arrive, you will be greeted. There is no waiting room, so we kindly ask you to come exactly at the scheduled time, not earlier.

Sometimes you will be welcomed only by the person who will perform your massage. At other times, another therapist who is not conducting the massage may also greet you. During the pre- and post-massage conversation, you will be alone with the therapist performing your massage.

Confidentiality regarding your personal information and the session itself is assured.

What does the Temple look like?

The temple is a space reminiscent of Tibetan temples. It features many elements, statues, images, candles, and wax, and does not resemble a typical "spa" in any way.

During the ritual, no offerings are made to anyone or anything. The energies represented by the images and statues are traditional to Tibetan Tantra, without any modern inventions or pseudo-tantric distortions. The most significant among them include: Achi Chökyi Drölma, Four-Armed Mahakala, Yellow Dzambala, Vajrasattva, White Tara, Green Tara, and the Medicine Buddha. The massage is always dedicated to the benefit of all sentient beings.

The massage takes place on a comfortable mattress on the floor.

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Can I take a shower at Anahata Tantra Temple

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Yes, you are welcome to take a shower before the massage. You can take a shower also after the massage, but we suggest you to wait few hours, because we use 100% pure natural edible organic oils that will keep nourishing your skin.

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Should I bring anything with me?

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If you have a pareo/sarong you like, you can bring that with you. Also a big towel if you like (please note that in the pareo/sarong and towel there could be oil stains after massage) . If not, no worries, we have everything needed 🙂

Payment by cash.

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What kind of oil do you use?

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We use 100% pure edible oils such as coconut oil and sweet almond oil.

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How to book a massage?

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Please fill in the booking form in our website: https://www.anahatatantra.com/book-a-tantric-massage/. We will get in contact with you within 24h in order to arrange the exact date for the massage session or healing session. In the booking form please select the way of contact you prefer.

On-site, in order to receive the massage, it will be necessary to read, complete, and sign the informed consent form. The form requires providing your full name, phone number, health information, and indicating whether you consent to the massage/mapping of intimate areas. The massage will not be performed without prior informed consent provided through the informed consent form.