During a standard "Senses Wide Open" tantric massage that we perform, we do not focus on the intimate area. Typically, this massage does not involve focus on the yoni area. However, if a person wishes to include it and clearly communicates this desire before the session begins, during the boundary-setting discussion, it is possible to include this area in the massage. This means that intimate areas may be touched to activate sexual energy and guide it to the heart and higher chakras, but a separate intimate area massage is not performed—unless otherwise agreed upon before the session. For women, internal yoni massage is not part of this session; it is offered during separate release and cleansing sessions. Only in the case of conscious and verbal communication expressing a desire to experience yoni massage/mapping will the massage of intimate areas be part of the "Senses Wide Open" massage.
The massage of intimate areas is a part of the Kama Marma Tantric Massage and the Fire Snake Tantric Massage, where the focus is on the yoni and lingam. Of course, if you do not want the therapist to touch your intimate areas, that is perfectly acceptable—your comfort, safety, and boundaries are our top priority. Before the massage, during the initial discussion, we will ask about your boundaries. These boundaries can be narrowed at any time during the massage (but not expanded). For instance, you can choose to opt out of intimate area massage during the session, but if that boundary was set beforehand, it will be respected throughout the massage.
